Comments on: 3 things you should NOT do when you are angry https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/ Listen to the voice of God Thu, 19 May 2016 03:06:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.2 By: Tara Gomez https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-142 Thu, 19 May 2016 03:06:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-142 Sister Amitha, your reaction could be the result of frustration and pent up emotions within you. You were unable to see any change in the person who wronged you for a long time, as you’d hoped.
This also reveals the fact that you’ve not dealt with the hurt in the right manner in relation to yourself, while you were waiting to see a change in the other person. If God’s instructions are not applied in such situations, you’re bound to ‘lose control’ and ‘explode’. When you lose control, the enemy takes control of your mind and heart.
As regarding children, the boundaries are set by parents. Some children by nature are submissive and obedient. Some are not. So the Bible clearly instructs in Proverbs 19:18, ‘Discipline your son, for in that there is hope; do not be a willing party to his death’.
Proverbs 22:15, ‘Folly is bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it out’.
Proverbs 29:17, ‘Discipline your son, and he will give you peace; he will bring delight to your soul’.
Son, here means child/children.

]]> By: Amitha https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-141 Tue, 26 Apr 2016 12:37:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-141 Nicely written Donny. Short, crisp and to the point. However as always I have a query. 🙂 What if a person has wronged you for years, you have suffered in silence/patience awaiting a change in the persons demeanour. Ultimately you have screamed/displayed anger. Is that self defence or is it devil acting in you?? Or to state another simple scenario, Why is it that when a child does something wrong and a mother corrects him gently, he pays no heed. But the minute she raises her voice/gets angry the child stops the misdeed. ( applicable for kids atleast 🙂 )

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]]> By: 6 things to keep in mind while handling conflicts | His Voice Online https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-139 Tue, 17 Nov 2015 00:38:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-139 […] Some people get angry/emotional soon and end up making the situation worse. But as a peace maker, your duty should be to perform your best to solve the conflict. (You may read my previous post on 3 things not to do when you are angry, here) […]

]]> By: Donny Thomas Kurien https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-138 Tue, 03 Nov 2015 13:31:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-138 In reply to varun singh.

Yes you are right, Varun. Getting right with people gives us great peace of mind. And keeping up relationships is much important.

]]> By: Donny Thomas Kurien https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-137 Tue, 03 Nov 2015 13:30:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-137 In reply to Joanna Sara Valson.

Yes, it all starts at home. As you rightly pointed it out, when this is practiced at our comfort zones, then it will indeed help us to be strong during stressful moments.

]]> By: Donny Thomas Kurien https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-136 Tue, 03 Nov 2015 13:28:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-136 In reply to Zeno Ben Sunny.

Yes true 🙂 Better not to become angry soon.

]]> By: Zeno Ben Sunny https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-135 Tue, 03 Nov 2015 05:59:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-135 Perfect one!!
As in, James 1:20 says,
“For man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.”
Let’s keep ourselves from sinning, let’s reconcile before it’s too late and let’s NOT give devil a nano space in our life, relationship and in all our life.
God bless you!
Zeno

]]> By: Joanna Sara Valson https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-134 Tue, 03 Nov 2015 03:48:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-134 A very thoughtful article for a Christian!! Yes. This is one area where we need to exercise ourselves daily- Crucifying our anger and holding up the love of God. As mentioned, the power of reconciliation is the most amazing fact. That’s when you can experience His love the most. This is best put into practice at our homes- what we exhibit at our comfort zones, we will do the same at our stress zones. Let us make our homes a training ground. May God bless.

]]> By: varun singh https://hisvoiceonline.com/things-you-should-not-do-when-you-are-angry/#comment-133 Tue, 03 Nov 2015 03:32:00 +0000 https://hisvoiceonline-com.stackstaging.com/?p=696#comment-133 I think after getting anger we should take some time & if you feel you were wrong, immediately accept it and reconcile with that person.

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